I got a ton of calls and text messages about part 1 so I didn’t want to rush this post however it did take me a bit longer then I expected anyway its finally complete please read and comment. If you need to reread part 1 click here: Part 1
I discussed with a friend after the first post that attachment is just another word for like. Attached couples are normally together because of what the other has to offer and traditionally stem from the things that first attract you to a person like he/she looks or smells good, drives a nice car, makes you laugh, holds a decent conversation, so many feet tall, etc. Attached individuals start straddling the fence when they help with household bills, get a family cell phone plan, move-in together, etc. I’m sure you’ve heard that you don’t really know a person until you live with them. Is that true? I can’t really say but my Twitter followers and Facebook friends tend to agree.
A wise man once said, “Everyone you meet comes with baggage, find someone who loves you enough to unpack.” That quote just about sums up this post. A couple that loves one another loves unconditionally or as they say flaws in all. They have built on the surface level things that first attracted them to that man or woman transitioning from attachment to love.
- Signing off until next week Jimmy “The Love Doctor” Quetron
So now u a love doctor? Too funny! But I agree that attachment is another way to say you’re “in like” with that individual. To say that I love someone is unconditional and I love them for many different reasons… Much more than what they have to offer me because if anything should ever happen and those “things” are gone I will continue to have that same love for them! So lots of ppl say that to love someone and to be “in love” with someone is two different things… Do you believe that. Love Doctor?
I agree that there is a difference between “loving” and “being in love” with someone. Many times when you grow attached to a person the next level is loving them or the time you send with them, but it takes true commitment, hard work and communication to be “in love” with someone you have grown with. Not to mention keeping that love flowing for many years to come.